Thursday, December 18, 2014

Who is "This Girl"?

Welcome!

For those of you that read my last blog, I'm attaching a link to my last post that should explain why I'm starting fresh: The Elle Woods' Guide: Getting through a break up.

Now that I'm starting a new blank space I figured I should introduce myself (even though most of my readers will be comprised of the same people).

I'm Katie, a 23 year old receptionist currently residing in Texas. Yes, I'm a receptionist, but that isn't where my passion lies. What gives me joy is helping people. I'm trying to make my passion a lifestyle by attending school for counseling. I still have quite a lot of school to go before I reach my final goal of earning my PhD, but I'm very excited to gain the knowledge that comes with such a prestigious title. I keep reminding myself, it's not how you start the race, but how you finish it. My education started off rocky; however, I've finally found my passion and I'm excited to run my race!  

I'm a very Type A person when it comes to balancing work, school, family, friends and a love life. I have a set schedule of how my day is supposed to go and I stick with it! In other words, I'm not flexible and I freak out when something unexpected is thrown my way. It's not my most attractive trait, but I'm woman enough to admit that it's there. (Not to mention it's the huge elephant in the room when I have to exit my rut and do something that isn't in my schedule.) Getting this undesirable personality trait under control isn't something that will happen over night, but one day I might just overcome the anxiety that comes with changing up my schedule.  It is something I need to control though because being flexible is something that I require to stay sane when accomplishing my goals. Life doesn't always run smoothly--no matter how much I want to force it!

I love all things girly: Makeup, shoes, purses, pink, flowers, glitter, you name it! This space may also be a place where I tell you what's "hip and happening" in great world of beauty and style tips. I may not be the best "face painter", but I have never heard anyone say, "Ewwwww! Look at her face!" I consider that an accomplishment in and of itself! I have learned so much from YouTube and found many products through subscription boxes that I can't live without. I won't buy a product that hasn't had wonderful reviews across the board. Not to mention, I won't spend 30 bucks on a little bottle of concealer. I'm normal, not a rich beauty guru. 

 Not only do I love all things girly, I also pride myself in being a strong, independent, responsible woman. No, I'm not a feminist by any means, but I think every woman should have their own views and opinions outside of a relationship. I want to be a mom--someday. I would love to see a few little blonde kiddos running around in my back yard; however, my first priority is my education and my career. I need to take care of myself before I introduce little mini-me's into this harsh world. If I were to get married and I was solely dependent on my husband financially and he were to pass away--what would I do? I would be a widow with X number of kids and no education. That is not where I want to be. Yes, I want to be a stay at home mom when the time comes, but I also want to be able to provide for myself if need be. That's what all of us should strive for: independence. 

This is a place where I will give you my thoughts on everything girly as well as look at some issues we women have (such as the independence issue stated above). I'm not the most profound thinker, but I say what other people seem to be afraid to say. Hopefully you will find joy, humor and enlightenment through my thoughts as I throw them up on the page. 

This Girl's Introduction